The Work!

The Work!

With permission... I greet my soul client with an open heart. Today is our one-day break-through and I am excited and in awe of her gutsiness and courage. I smile as I ‘hear’ her commitment to expand who she is. I thrill at her desire to find her truth. And, whatever...

Go to the wire!

Go to the wire!

You know how it is when you’re making a leap of faith. And if you don’t, give it a go some time. It’s simultaneously exhilarating and O M G. Anyhow... When there’s a leap of faith to be made, you can fiddle and fart about. Well that’s what I’ve been doing with Truth...

Got that it’s ENOUGH feeling?

Got that it’s ENOUGH feeling?

ENOUGH... I’m done with living in a masculine world! Adversarial and transactional relationships? No thanks. Ego driven goal setting and an over-reliance on logical thinking? No thanks. Trump and the rise of the ‘Right’ across Europe? Absolutely no thanks. More...

Want the whole loaf?

Want the whole loaf?

Following ‘What’s the big deal about being Wild?’, I’m done with being ‘polite.’ At the same time I feel like an explosion being stifled by ‘what will other people think of me?’ Because I want to write about releasing old friends, releasing old comfort zone activities...

Do you get to choose?

Do you get to choose?

I’m so excited. Just days to my oh so special event on 6 June and I feel like... Well, do you remember waking up on the morning you were going to the seaside? Or the day you were off on holiday. Or the day you knew you had a treat planned? Sheer bloody excitement,...

It’s all in the eyes!

It’s all in the eyes!

Just so you know, I am aware of our recent fairy-tale royal wedding with handsome prince marrying gorgeous commoner and all the issues around that being hailed as a ‘good thing.’ And, although I might sound a bit curmudgeonly, enough already! If you spent just a...

Are you a busy-busy-back-soon too?

Are you a busy-busy-back-soon too?

I feel a bit fallollop. The #7Step programme up and running, seriously blown plaster in my home repaired, damp being treated, dodgy ballcock replaced and superb fitted wardrobes in my bedroom installed. Add that to full-on work/extra-curricular activities and I’m...

Shit scared…

Shit scared…

Last night I watched the film ‘Suffragettes.’ I was appalled by the violence against the women. I was appalled by the injustice and the sacrifices they were forced to make to stay true to their cause. Sometimes I had to change TV channel and turn back when I could...

Help yourself to get over yourself…

Help yourself to get over yourself…

You know how it is to slip on a banana skin and fall flat on your face, metaphorically at least. Well, as human beings, you and I will have done that more than once. But it’s the aftermath when you feel so awful where you need to get over yourself. GET OVER YOURSELF...

What’s special about me then?

What’s special about me then?

When I wrote this blog post title, part of me wanted to disappear into a hole. ‘Don’t be a show-off… You’re too big for your boots… Who do you think you are any way?’ She stings with the pain of being put down and humiliated. I tell her she is a beautiful and talented...

Brace Yourself!

Brace Yourself!

You are going to be hearing a lot from me over the coming weeks!! And it's all about DARING TO BE YOU! Like you don’t already! But this is different. VERY DIFFERENT. For years I’ve been aware there are women who can’t afford or don’t want to commit to counselling,...

When there are no words…

When there are no words…

I’m sitting with a blank piece of paper. And a blank mind. I’m numbed out with the terror of recent events, both attacks and the totally preventable deaths and traumatisation of survivors by inferno. And the incomprehensible truly ‘bloody’ negligence of some powers...

How to spice up the election…

How to spice up the election…

If you’re weary of the run up to this election and its shenanigans, spicing it up could be the answer. Here’s the idea...   Imagine you’re the divine feminine surveying the political scene and the ‘actors’ or ‘players’ involved in it.   Game 1: Pick one...

Time to reclaim a Sabbath

Time to reclaim a Sabbath

When I unlocked my front door at 6.15 am Sunday morning, a speeding car whizzed past. At 6.15 am on a Sunday morning! Twenty-three years ago when I moved here the only thing you’d hear at that time on a Sunday morning was bird song followed later by church bells. But...

Expect miracles!

Expect miracles!

Welcome to 2017… My back went into a massive spasm last Thursday, the worst I’ve had for a decade or more. It comes to something when you have to put your underpants on using one of those litter grabbers they use in parks. Or find your PJs are more comfortable than...

Christmas hoo haa or what?

Christmas hoo haa or what?

I’m sitting here blank. Not a thought, Christmassy or otherwise, enters my head. It’s a big blank no-fly zone of nothingness. To be honest, it’s wonderful.   No ‘things to do’ or ‘presents to buy’ lists. I know things are piling up but right here and now, I...