I’ve written elsewhere that when you feel unsettled, as though you don’t fit in your skin, and/or feel like a square peg in a round hole, your soul’s blueprint is trying to tell you you’re playing too small. It wants you to grow into your next incarnation; a more expanded and even more magnificent you.

It seems to me that many, many women ignore the call and I don’t blame them. Daring to be you is not for the faint-hearted. Instead…

Get a new job, get married/committed relationship, redecorate your home, change the furniture, change your job, buy a car… even make a baby. Anything, but anything, to distract you from your feelings and ‘the call.’

Maybe that works for many, many women. Maybe you too. I know it worked for me some of the time until the sheen on new shiny things wore off. Then I was back to square one.

In my mid-thirties I surrendered. I gave up the fight to be a ‘respectable suburban wife and mother.’ Who me? Please! I began listening to my divine inner wisdom and travelling my O M G journey to dare to be me.

The thing is, from time to time, there’s always more of me to grow into. And when I call out to the divine, ‘Haven’t I done enough already?’… The answer reverberates through the Universe as a big fat NO!

It’s even happening in my life now proving you’re never too old to grow.

But you know what? I wouldn’t change the nature of my journey for anything. Growing into my oddball and sometimes outrageous self has been, is and will be magic!

Your journey is different to mine because you and I have different soul blueprints; a different mission to carry out here on earth. So, how you’re called to dare to be you will be unique and different to how I’m called to dare to be me.

As the old beat poets (that tells you my age) might have said… ‘What a gas!’

Come join me to hear more of my stories, my take on life and ask every darn question you never dared ask a psychotherapist before. Just you, me and 18 other women creating magic between us as only women can. Here’s the link… My Psychotherapy Secrets and other Wonderful Things!

The event’s also a celebration of my 70 years journey and all that’s yet to come. I would love you to share it with me and, if you haven’t yet begun, be inspired to become even more of magnificent you!

Love to you…

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